if you love someone, ask for nothing..

..got this from Mariel... super ok sha..... its like the things and feeling inside me that was set into words... luv it!!!

if you love someone, ask him for nothing. dont hold him from his destiny. dont keep him from going off in search of his own answers. dont ask him for commitment. you will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly, and not as something obligatory. dont ask him for promises. if you are patient, if you have faith, you will know in your heart when the right time for promises has come.

and when that time arrives, then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free, and have instead gained a richer, fuller life, a wealth of experiences, and a stronger certainty of your desires.

but should he not return to you, then life hasnt cheated you because no promises were broken. your bitterness will not last long, and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least, this beautiful soul has colored your life, that knowing him has already made life infinitely more meaningful.

by setting a person a free, you run a risk of him not returning. but always remember that you found him beautiful precisely because he was free. people are like sunlight. you can feel their warmth, and their glow, but you cant hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever. people choose to stay. but a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options..